Monday, December 27, 2004

To Whomsoever It May Concern

"You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind ..."

You know, you may take your own sweet time to get over things but you may not really succeed because unlike popular belief, time is not such a great healer as its made out to be - its the people who come into your life, sometimes in the strangest fashion, who help you see things beyond the pain and misery and the whys and why nots and take you out of that dreadful place called loneliness.

And yes, mostly love just blossoms on its own but sometimes its a conscious decision on one's part to be happy again, to start afresh, to allow someone else to share one's life with.



Blogger Surinder said...

so very true :)..

time is a factor somewhere :) .. as time goes by u allow people to come into ur life .. as time goes by u open up to them :)

December 27, 2004 at 11:24:00 PM EST  
Blogger Shibil said...

You never had given an impression that you think!!! :)

I guess Time is a healer when you decide for urself that it should be a healer!!

December 28, 2004 at 12:28:00 AM EST  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

First lines of your post resembles this Song.

Yes from experience I don't beleive as Surinder and you that time alone heals!!! It only festers the sores if left as it is.

People have a great impact on our lives.

But again have you noticed this?
The advice for the hurting comes from people who have never experienced sorrow as the one sufferring.

Where as comfort comes form people who have sufferred
alike or more.

This is a good article on it :))

And always from experience I know. The best way to heal yourself is in the Presence of the Lord and then caring for those who hurt around you.

A gentle pat on the shoulder of a discouraged person can turn his face up. A gentle smile can soothe his pain when he knows somebody cares. And a few words of kindness and comfort and encouragement have the power to get him on his feet and keep moving :)))

I have come to realize this verse I have heard some where.

"You will need to bleed, before you can bless"

--- From the one to whom it concerns gravely :))

December 28, 2004 at 12:38:00 AM EST  
Blogger Reena Mathews said...

Surinder: Thanks for stopping by. Keep visiting :)
Shibil: Now u have given me the same impression about urself - u think too. Cheers!!!

December 29, 2004 at 12:03:00 AM EST  
Blogger Siju said...

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December 30, 2004 at 11:25:00 PM EST  
Blogger Siju said...

oops!!! in my hurry I posted a part of a configuration file :))) initially!!!! and after wards something else !!!problems with the cut & paste technology hahaha!!!!

couldn't get time to read any body's blogs or even check personal mails for a few days.

Good one this is dear Reena!! Keep it up!! I fully agree with you :)))

US has a budding philosipher???(hope it spells right)

And thanks I got to know that binukuttan is also having a blog :))))

Who is Shibil? was he in GEC?? his name is so familiar!!
Was he in Shibi's gang?

nice to see Seema and others also :)))

Lejo had come here yesterday!!

Wish you a happy new year!!!

Will come back next timei get a break!!! in a few days!!!


December 30, 2004 at 11:50:00 PM EST  
Blogger IdeaSmith said...

Thanks for dropping into the smithy. My first visit your writing, lady. Especially loved the last two posts. Will come by more often!

December 31, 2004 at 1:28:00 AM EST  
Blogger Nathan Frampton said...

Interesting blog.

You may want to check out my blog "Framptonia" at, I think you would find it interesting. I have a few contributors and there are some great discussions.

You may also want to try blog explosion to get more readers on your blog. I have a blog explosion link on my blog if you want to check it out.

December 31, 2004 at 1:39:00 AM EST  
Blogger Reena Mathews said...

Siju: Will answer all ur Qs through email. Been very busy, mail u this weekend.

Smithy: Thanks for the compli & leave more such comments :). Hope u had a wonderful New Year.

Nathan: Welcome to my blog! I checked out 'Framptonia', couldn't read all that is out there but the last two posts seemed interesting.
Thanks for telling me about 'blog explosion', will check that out soon.

January 5, 2005 at 12:07:00 AM EST  
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